Notes to present and future lovers… 🖤
x. You cannot change people. You can encourage and motivate them but the change/growth can only happen from within when they are ready. When the time is right for them. When their internal clocks have ticked forward to the next dial of development. If you are waiting for the person to change you are wasting your time, my dear.
x. Cultivate love and happiness within yourself before sharing it with someone else. There is a difference between self love and narcissism.
x. Never lose your independence. You came into this world as an individual. Work together as a team to problem solve and share amazing experiences together -but the scales of individuality should remain balanced.
x. Open and honest communication alongside active listening is as refreshing as a cold beer on a hot day. And I’m talking about the raw and the unfiltered talks. The spectrum and vibrancy of all emotions in a conversation. Put your phone away, look into their soul. What do you see? What are they telling you?
x. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. If your time together has come to an end -be at peace with the circumstance. Thank them for the experience. It is not a love lost.. just growth.
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